Saturday, May 15, 2010

Singapore Oddities

For the past couple weeks we've been busy back in Austin starting our home renovation projects and getting ready for our final 2-week journey to France and Switzerland, which we're really looking forward to. Si je parle français aussi mal que j'ai fait à l'école, je vais avoir un temps difficile, cependent! :) In the meantime, here are some of the oddities we came across in Singapore:

We saw these signs in a lot of places, but I really think the whole 'caning' thing works a lot better as a crime deterrent than our often lenient jail sentences. We never felt like we were in any danger, and since the standard of living is so much higher in Singapore than in the other places we visited in Southeast Asia, there weren't even people trying to rip us off at every corner!





Here is an example of the 4 languages on most signage in Singapore: English, Mandarin, Tamil, and Malay.




No durians on the subway! (a very stinky fruit popular in tropical Asian countries)






Illustrated instructions for using this public restroom:






A FANTASTIC dynamic parking sign, letting you know how many spaces are currently available in each of these lots!




And another fantastic sign, this one at the bus stop, letting you know which buses will be arriving and when.




Need a hip joint? These were for sale at the pharmacy down the street from our hotel.




Giant boat on the roof of Singapore's new casinos.




Odd things for sale at a booth in Chinatown... shark fin, frog, giant lizard, etc.





And now by reading the ingredient list of these pills in Chinatown, we can see where those items above would be used...





Another stand in Chinatown, "The Last Sausage Kiosk Before the Equator":




We had quite an appetizing selection of desserts to choose from in Chinatown:




Brian chose this mango ice thing (that dark area at the bottom turned out to be a core of baked black beans). I was kinda glad I had the vanilla ice cream!





Lightning counter on a tree at the Singapore Botanical Gardens - this tree has been struck 4 times already!





And the last night we were in town, we came across a group of Asian line dancers doing their thing right outside our subway stop. Kinda made us feel like we were back at home in Texas. :)


Tuesday, May 11, 2010

Singapore

We arrived in Singapore after our flight from Manila and immediately noticed the difference from the rest of Southeast Asia: clean streets, clean air, drinkable water, European prices, and a much more heterogeneous population (4 languages are prominently spoken: English, Mandarin, Malay, and Tamil). We made our way to the outskirts of Little India and arrived at our hotel, which suspiciously was only marked with a sign that said "HOTEL" out front. It certainly wasn't cheap, even by U.S. standards, but sure enough, we ascertained by the sketchy men and hookers in the lobby that we had managed to book ourselves in a "rent-by-the-hour" place. But they had a cool fat calico cat and free internet, so we stayed anyways. :)

The following day we took public transit to the Singapore Zoo, which has a reputation for being one of the best in the world, and it did not disappoint! Moats are largely used for animal containment, eliminating most of the need for cages, and the animals have large natural habitats to roam around in. They also have a lot of specialty animals that are rare to see in most North American zoos, such as False Gharials (a large fish-eating alligator-like creature), Proboscis Monkeys, Pygmy Hippos, White Tigers, and more. Our favorite was the rainforest exhibit, which allows you to walk through a contained rainforest amidst the free-roaming animals (which is how we got this close-up picture of a lemur just 'chilling' on the path!). Once darkness fell, we ventured next door to the Night Safari, which is essentially a 'nighttime zoo' that features nocturnal animals. We took the tram tour and walked the trails, where giant bats, flying squirrels, and enormous mosquitoes were swooping overhead - pretty exciting!

The next day we had our first of many meals at Komala Vilas, a prominent Indian vegetarian fast food outlet in Singapore. Here is a picture of their mascot, a giant dosai. :) If only they would franchise in the U.S.... then we would have an alternative to Taco Bell when we are on the road! After lunch we took the MRT (subway) to Orchard Road, the famous upscale shopping district. We looked like we just fell off the turnip truck compared to most of the people there, but it was still fun to browse in the 6-story malls full of Louis Vuitton, Prada, Jimmy Choo, etc. And they were air-conditioned!



Orchard Road
Orchard Road
Huge Mall
At Night

After getting our fill of 'window shopping', we took the MRT down to City Hall, where we walked to the Singapore Flyer, a 540-foot tall ferris wheel overlooking Marina Bay. There are 28 cars that hold 28 people each (according to the audio tour, it's some feng shui thing), and one rotation takes 30 minutes to complete. It was even recently featured in a stunt on this season's Amazing Race!



That evening (it was a busy day!) we journeyed over to Chinatown for a guided tour of the area and of the 'brothel history'. We saw odd foods, Chinese medicine shops, old sewage doors where nightmen came weekly to remove the pail from under your toilet, old brothels, and even some current brothels (identified by their red and white lighted signs - see pics).



Chinatown
Sewage Door
Brothels
Brothel Sign :P

The following day we headed to the Changi Museum, Chapel, and Prison, which memorializes the Japanese Occupation of Singapore during WWII. From there, we took the MRT to the Singapore Botanical Gardens, which are free to enter and are extremely popular with the locals and visitors alike. We saw similar activities as are popular in the U.S. - a couple getting married (see pic), random people dressed in newspaper costumes acting out scenes (see pic), kids learning to ride their bikes, runners, etc. It was the most "American" scene that we had come across in Southeast Asia! Here are some pictures:

Newspaper Costumes
Wedding
Rainforest Fig Tree
Ginger

The next day it was time to say goodbye to Asia and take off on the long flight to LA, with a 6-hour layover in Beijing. :( We had intended on heading to New Zealand at this point to do some hiking, but of course family matters became more pressing and we needed to head home. Our seats on the flight were just a couple rows behind the giant TV screens, so when the lights were dimmed for 'sleeping time', I put my black blanket over my head to block out the TV lights. And of course, in usual 'Susan' fashion, I wake up, the cabin lights are already on, breakfast is being served, and everyone is staring at me for having a blanket over my head! I wanted to just put the blanket back on to hide my embarrassment, but at least I will never see any of those people again, haha. In the next few days I'll post some pics of the odd signs we saw around Singapore - all the rules, instructions, and warnings that the country is so famous (or infamous) for.

Monday, April 26, 2010

Sad News and What's Next

It's been almost a month since I've posted, and as most of you know, things have not gone well. My mom Reaves passed away on March 31st, 2010, after being diagnosed with inflammatory breast cancer (an extremely aggressive cancer that is rarely detected during mammograms) last summer. She touched many people during her 55 years, which was evidenced by the packed memorial service and outpouring of support that my family has received throughout her illness. For all of that, I thank you. She would too. I thought I would share a few photos of my mom and I, and also post a handout from the memorial service that I put together (many of you probably already have a copy) - it's an excerpt from an email that my mom sent me while I was in college when I was going through a rough patch, with suggestions of how to take charge of your life and have a more positive outlook. My mom was always there to lend an ear and offer a kind word to anyone who needed it, so I feel like if at least one person is impacted positively from this, then her legacy will continue to live on.

And what's next for us? Well, I still have yet to finish the Singapore entries of the blog, so those will be posted next once they are finished. Brian and I have been going back and forth between Texas and Tennessee for awhile now, but we will finally be returning back to our home in Austin this week and diving into some home improvement projects we've been wanting to tackle for awhile. Unfortunately the 'big trip' is over for now, but we are planning a 2-week 'grand finale' trip in May to France and Switzerland since I really wanted to close out the trip in Paris (we are crossing our fingers for no more volcanic eruptions!). So I'll do a few blog postings on that excursion, and then we'll see where things go from there.


Getting Through a Rough Patch

Good morning! It's a new day and I hope things are looking a little brighter. You are going through a rough patch, as all of us do at times, and I hope I can help by encouraging you and suggesting things you can do to help feel better about yourself and in charge of your life.

1) Kindness - Everyday, do at least one kindness for someone else. It doesn't have to be something big--going out of your way to say something kind doesn't take much time or effort, and it can be something as small as scattering a piece of bread for the birds, who will have a little easier day because of you. This one is very important, because if you do this, you will never have a wasted day.

2) Gratitude list - Every night, write down 5 things you're grateful for. Some days it may be things like, I'm grateful I don't have a broken arm, but if you keep doing it you'll start appreciating the good in your life, and you'll see more good things. This has made a huge difference to me since I started doing it.

3) Exercise - an all-around winner--good for your body, releases relaxing chemicals to your brain, reduces stress, gets your mind off things.

4) Laughter - a great stress reliever. Rent a funny movie--anything by Mel Brooks, The Marx Brothers, etc., watch Candid Camera. Here's a joke: What's black and white and furry and never wants to grow up? Answer below...

5) Yoga-relaxation-meditation exercises - I've been doing yoga about twice a week and though I'm not very good, I always feel more relaxed and centered. That breathing stuff helps.

6) Music - Playing it or listening to it, especially the Baroque style that has all the harmonic resolution.

7) Church - You don't have to go to services if you don't want to, though I'd recommend it, as it helps to be among people who are looking for meaning and trying to make themselves better. Just sitting in a church or chapel can be very restorative; there is an atmosphere of peace.

8) Get out in nature - I'm not sure why this works--maybe it reminds you of the connection between all things, but just spending time in the outdoors is helpful. I used to study outdoors a lot when the weather was nice.

9) Spend time with people (or animals) who make you feel good about yourself - Right now you don't need the company of people who bring you down. I hope you can start visiting the elderly again sometime. These people usually have a lot of wisdom to share and are grateful for company.

10) Keep a journal - It helps to write things out and can be very therapeutic--also helps you see patterns you might not see otherwise.

11) Uplifting reading - Yes, self-help books can be cheesy, but they can actually be helpful in giving you new ideas and suggesting new ways of looking at things. I also recommend watching Mr. Rogers, the kindest, most affirming person on TV.

12) Be kind to yourself - Buy yourself a present! Pick out something at the grocery store that you like but consider a little extravagant. Give yourself the gift of a few hours to do whatever you want. Treat yourself as kindly as you would treat someone else you care about.

Take heart--every little thing that you do to take control of your life puts you a little closer to where you want to be, and those little things will add up quickly, day by day.

The answer to the riddle? Peter Panda. Love, Reaves

“A ministry doesn’t have to be only through a church, or even through an ordination. And I think we all can minister to others in this world by being compassionate and caring. I hope you will feel good enough about yourselves that you will want to minister to others, and that you will find your own unique ways to do that. If you could only sense how important you are to the lives of those you meet; how important you can be to the people you may never even dream of. There is something of yourself that you leave at every meeting with another person.” - Mr. Rogers



Monday, March 29, 2010

Filipino Oddities

Well, unfortunately things have continued on a pretty rapid downward trajectory with my mom's condition, but we are all trying to cope the best we can. She's resting again right now though, so I thought I'd try to post another severely-delayed blog entry from our trip. Here are some of the strange things we saw in the Philippines:


Ooo... magical placenta whitening soap! Gives me that baby-soft skin I've always wanted...





Everywhere we went in the Philippines, the locals were extremely pro-American, calling America their 'second mother' and attributing the success of the Philippines to America - and I guess maybe the "Obama Grill" on White Beach is just another token of their affection. :)





A small tree-root toilet to add to my toilet photo collection...





Rice drying on the side of the road





Alright, so this is a terrible photo I took of the TV, but I was trying to capture this odd karaoke channel that was showing soft-core porn in the background. The song playing in this image is "I Saw Mommy Kissing Santa Claus". :)




Banana Ketchup - blech!







Why go to a gas station when you can just buy your gas in a bottle on the side of the road? I just wish I had gotten a picture of the stand we passed that was selling gas out of Coke bottles...




Ice-cold sarap. Coke na! (For some reason I thought a lot more English would be spoken in the Philippines than actually was - Filipino seemed to be much more prominent. In addition, there are 13 indigenous languages with 1+ million speakers apiece, with most Filipinos learning one of these as their native language.)



A Filipino woman wearing a snake vertebrae 'necklace' on her head to protect from lightning strikes






We saw people peeing everywhere, despite these signs, haha.







Wooden scooters ridden by the Ifugao tribes (I'm not sure how they get them back uphill!)





A bag with chewing substances - areca nut, betel leaf, lemon/lime, and spices. These are chewed together for a stimulant effect - and are the cause of red-stained teeth and lips of many locals. (Areca and betel are also carcinogens.)





And last, but certainly not least, another lovely toilet picture! This is a relatively clean FEMALE trough squat toilet - the gals just back in and pee in a cozy row. I decided just to hold it. :)